{"id":634,"date":"2024-06-27T15:46:52","date_gmt":"2024-06-27T15:46:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ubershop.biz\/?p=634"},"modified":"2024-06-28T08:14:34","modified_gmt":"2024-06-28T08:14:34","slug":"madame-joyce-shells-out-dating-advice-that-you-need-to-hear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ubershop.biz\/index.php\/2024\/06\/27\/madame-joyce-shells-out-dating-advice-that-you-need-to-hear\/","title":{"rendered":"Madame Joyce Shells Out Dating Advice That You Need To Hear"},"content":{"rendered":"
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The question: Should men be the providers in relationships?\u00a0<\/p>\n

The hosts of Go Off, Sis<\/em> have thoughts<\/em>. In this special two-part series, done in partnership with Target<\/a>, Chelsea Sanders (VP and cofounder of Unbothered) and Kathleen Newman-Bremang (deputy director global at Unbothered) have gathered with guest star Madame Joyce<\/a>, the UK media personality behind the beloved (and gloriously chaotic) podcast Cocktails & Takeaways<\/a>, to partake in the \u201csprinkle sprinkle\u201d discourse.\u00a0<\/p>\n

The general consensus is this: We shouldn\u2019t dictate the roles people choose to play in their relationships. You do you, and if that works, great. Or, in Newman-Bremang\u2019s words: \u201cIn real life, there\u2019s going to be this push and pull, this back and forth, and if your relationship works for you, then that\u2019s okay. I don\u2019t like the, \u2018Women should be like this, men should be like this, and in every relationship, it should be like this.\u2019\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n

But<\/em> there\u2019s also this expectation that your S.O. should step up. \u201cI\u2019m very masculine by nature. My mindset is, \u2018If you cannot step up as a man in my life, then why are you here?\u201d says Madame Joyce before going on to dispense truly top-tier dating advice. \u201cStop dating the guys you want, and start dating the guys you need.\u201d <\/p>\n

For Sanders, it\u2019s a matter of allowing her to exude her feminine energy. \u201cBecause I\u2019m fiercely independent at this age, I\u2019m often in my masculine energy. I take charge a lot. So, if I meet a partner who lets me be in my feminine, I do enjoy that\u2026but it takes a lot to take me out of my masculine, dominant energy and be feminine,\u201d she says. \u201cAt the same time, do I allow men to step outside of their masculine and maybe be a little pampered? Do we always have to stay in masculine\/feminine energy roles?\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n

Hit play, below, to listen to the Go Off, Sis<\/a><\/em> podcast in its entirety<\/a>, which includes spicy takes on folks shamelessly shooting their shot, toxic friendships and friendship breakups, their approach to relationships (spoiler alert: Madame Joyce admits she\u2019s a bit of a love bomber), and so much more.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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